Finding balance with transurfing reality and this article pertains to the how to apply balance from the book Reality Transurfing Steps I-V by Vadim Zeland, and I must tell you that just by practicing this, my life has completely changed.
Not only mine but also the life of my clients and the people that I work with. So, pay attention as we’re going to get right into it. You will learn the secret of this universe, and apply this secret of your life.
However, I encourage you to get the book and to look into the glossary to become familiar with these terms. Because we’re only being given the scripts and the vocabulary to make the connection between the seen and the unseen. The balance is going to teach us that whatever we’re doing over here, there’s something going on that’s going to balance things out over here. We might not see it or even be aware of it.
Each Universal Law Must Obey the Law of Balance:
When it come to finding balance with reality transurfing the author Vadim says right at the beginning of the book that “laws do not actually explain anything. They are just statements of fact.” For instance, the law of gravity, you don’t have to show me the law of gravity. Or to be more precise, you can’t show me the law of gravity. It’s just there. It’s just a statement of fact. Whether you honor it, respect it or you die it will always be there.
The author further explains that “all laws of nature are secondary and derived from the law of balance.” So the law of balance is really the law of all laws. All laws have to be in balance with the law of balance. Else there will be problems. As long as we’re in harmony with these laws, we’re fine. But sometimes we’re walking around in ignorance. So, Vadim goes on explaining that, “Complete balance is when nothing happens.” Does that make sense to you?
Well, let us extend that for your understanding when you’re in balance, nothing happens. But, as soon as you start doing something on one side of the scale and expect a change to happen on the other side, this means you’re out of balance.
This is the space that everyone wants to be in. And the example we like to use is the scales because the scales, like a lot of things in nature, have two parts, which create a hole. So you have the moving parts of the scales and then you have the fulcrum, where the scale is balanced on. The human part of you is like the moving scales.
They’re constantly changing and moving, so you can’t trust it.
Finding balance with reality transrufing we can identify with the fulcrum that is holding the space and the energy for all of this activity to occur. But what we don’t see in this three-dimensional reality is when we’re ticking the scales in one direction. We don’t see these balancing forces being triggered and then coming into play. Then we end up saying, “I really want this thing.” Unfortunately, you don’t get this thing and then blame the law of attraction. It doesn’t work when we’re really moving from a space of not knowing the whole story and not understanding all laws including the law of attraction which is based on the law of cause and effect. Even the law of cause and effect has to obey the law balance.
The Origin of Law of Balance:
As we start to understand that these laws are just facts, they’re not there to be manipulated, but they’re there. When you know they’re there you can work with them instead of fighting against them. Because fighting against them will only leave you with the opposite of what you really want.
So all of these laws are secondary and derived from the law of balance.
This is impossible to explain why equilibrium should exist in nature in the first place. Or more specifically where balanced forces originated from and why they exist at all. So this is a part that we can only see what’s happening in our 3D realm. We can’t see what’s happening in these other realms. For instance, the law of gravity, where the forces are attracted to the magnet and being drawn to it. We don’t see these forces happening but they are there. So, we can’t see the other side of the scales to know what forces are triggered.
How do the Balancing Forces work?
With finding balance with reality transurfing, we were just talking about the scales and Vadim talks about these balancing forces are like being the scales. It’s where you as a human being are like the moving part of the scales and being part of the light is like the fulcrum. So, if you can understand how the balancing force works, you’ll be able to make yourself more balanced. Isn’t it?
Here the pendulums come in. So let’s say it’s something political, something affecting women or a certain minority group of people. Here some of us will say “I really don’t like what’s happening”. And somebody else might be looking at and thinking we got that law passed or whatever. So there’s a whole bunch of layers of worlds. Vadim explains later on that each one of us creates a layer within this reality or world.
So my world is feeding energy to it and so there are a whole bunch of other layers.
We begin to turn, look, and balance what’s happening. This is when the weight of our focus and attention feeds this pendulum. The reason might be anything whether it’s good or bad but we’re feeding our energy to it.
It doesn’t matter if the pendulum is good or bad. And of course, political stuff is going to push some of our buttons especially those who are so concerned about our rights being taken away. We have such fear of living authentically that we keep who we really are in the closet. Due to our fear, we’re all going to look, we’re all going to give weight to it and this is almost like mass relativity.
Each one of us collectively looks at this pendulum and gives it weight. But what happens on the other side is an imbalance.
With finding balance with reality transuring, that means there are triggering forces on the other side getting ready to balance whatever is happening here. So, after a while, we stop looking at the pendulum. We forget the story. It’s like the old news, terrible things are being shown in the news so many years ago that we just don’t feed that pendulum anymore. And we forget that part.
So, this one point the entire nation or the entire world was looking at and feeding that pendulum, and then it’s gone. What we don’t see on the other side is these balancing forces coming back to balance this out. It’s going to give us collectively more of what we are collectively looking at. It’s going to give us individually more of what we’re individually giving weight to.
So, Vadim explains the importance and why it creates excess potential.
And with finding balance with reality transurfing, that’s what I was explaining too. If you’re giving one side of the scales more importance than the other. You start looking at it and giving it more important then this is how you’re feeding it and creating these triggers. It creates excess potential. So when something is out of balance, you’re creating more tension, more excess potential and this triggers these balancing forces.
Nature always seeks balance.
No matter what level of nature you look at whether it’s the subatomic level or the old ancient trees, they all seek balance. It’s the number one goal of nature and it doesn’t care if there’s a bunch of people living there. If nature seeks balance, the balancing force will get back to its action. We might not know what’s really happening on these levels that we can’t use our five senses to detect it. It might feel as if some dark forces have turned against us. But, nature seeks only balance.
How to Apply the Law of Balance in Your Favor
If some energies have turned against you, it’s just that you’ve triggered balancing forces. This is why pendulums and balance between these two really work wonderfully. So, we’ll be discussing the tools that you can apply in your life to make these balancing forces work in favor of you.
1 – The pendulum is Not Your Original Lifeline
Recognize first of all when a pendulum is coming in, it’s not your original lifeline that leads to your wave of fortune. This different pendulum is gonna come in, get you to feed it, and take you off your lifeline. So many of us have shiny object syndrome. We’re always going to be looking out but we need to come inside and listen quietly for the rustle of the morning stars.
When you’re doing nothing, when you’re at balance, this is when signs become clear.
2 – Match Detachment With Integrity
When finding balance with reality transurfing, some say that, isn’t this really spiritual bypassing to be balanced? This answer lies in what Vadim says, “match detachment with integrity, care but don’t worry”.
We could talk about that a little bit too. So, it’s not a spiritual bypassing for example in the work that we do. We incorporate EFT where we are actually tapping on emotional meridians and looking at the problem even though these things may result in PTSD. Still, we’re looking at it rather than shoving it under the rug and pretending it didn’t happen.
Because it’s gonna be there and it’s gonna keep trying to balance out. So once you look at it and you’re acknowledging that it happened you’re saying “yes” to it. This is not bypassing but then with integrity, you’re choosing to stay in the center of expansive stillness. This is the space of balance. Because remember nothing’s happening is what complete balance is. So get into space as much as possible and feel what it feels like to be in balance.
3 – Care Without Worrying
This means when there’s something happening that you really don’t like, don’t attach to it. Don’t start feeding your energy to it and tipping the scales and then getting fed more of that.
You have to be aware of such instances. It’s okay to care but you should go into techniques that create a slide of the same scenario and imagine what you want to see happening in that situation. Like people have found their families, they’re together, they’re going through a much quicker compassionate process. So, create that slide then and there, imprint it on, and then leave it. Let the universe take care of the rest.
This is more of using outward intention rather than inward intention trying to change the outside which is already happening. You cannot change it. If you do then we need to start changing it from a more subatomic level. So, you can care without worrying or without feeding your pendulum.
4 – Stay Center No Matter What
Finding balance with reality transurfing, people have a tendency to become vibrationally split when they’re starting to awaken spiritually and feel apathy or cognitive dissonance. They might go through this stage as they’re starting to spiritually awake and sometimes you may feel that there’s no way out due to this cognitive dissonance. This is when you should realize that you’re out of balance.
Many decide to check out during this stage. But, if you can hang in there and just start to recognize these pendulums for what they really are and not feed any of it, you can experience the beauty of your inner nature. So just stay in your center and start to think about what kind of end results you want to experience in your life then take full responsibility. This lets you connect to your inner witness and enables you to act with integrity.
I’ve heard a lot of my clients saying, “I heard a lot about integrity but what exactly is integrity!”
So, here’s the bottom line with integrity. If you say yes to something you’re doing it without complaining, without wishing you didn’t, without wishing you were somewhere else. You are doing it 100% for whoever you said yes to. You’re doing it whether it’s for your significant other or your employer or your neighbor. If you said yes you are saying yes 100%.
When finding balance with reality transurfing, if you say no to something, it’s not like maybe or I shouldn’t or maybe yes. When you say no with integrity, it means a clear no. Even you don’t need any justification to say that no. So, this is called Integrity.
Start practicing this and this is a quality within you that you begin to build internal balance right from this point. That’s why Vadim really focuses on developing this integrity and renting yourself out without your thoughts, your judgments, opinions, and how things should be or could be or any critical thoughts that you have while you’re doing something.
Else this creates balancing forces to come back at us.
5 – Don’t Create Vibrational Splits
If you create a destructive dialogue between your heart and mind, this makes you out of balance. Sometimes your mind tells you, “you are stupid. You should be doing this. Why are you doing this? You could be better than others. Look at that person, why don’t you be more like that person?”
Yet the heart is saying “hey! I’m just me”. So, you create this vibrational split within yourself and send out signals of being out of balance. This alone triggers the balancing forces to bring a loop back to you of what you are mirroring for yourself.
6 – The habit of Expressing Displeasure
Do you have a habit of expressing displeasure at little things? For instance, you went to a restaurant and didn’t like it. Then you went to another one and again didn’t like it. This may look like a frivolous thing. But, there is immense harm in undermining everything whereas the habit of taking pleasure in tiny details is empowering.
So, start to become aware of how you’re responding to your mirror to your world. Because that’s exactly the loop that you’re creating, it’s gonna come right back at you.
7 – Don’t Try to Become Something You’re NOT
Vadim explains in the book that when finding balance with reality transurfing, “striving to hide shortcomings creates an opposite effect.” So, have you seen somebody who is painfully shy, is trying to be outgoing? But, it just doesn’t quite work. They’re trying to overcompensate Instead of acknowledging their positive quality.
I was just working with a client and we discovered that patience and grace are really a wonderful quality she had. And when she felt this within herself, tears just began. There were the mind and heart connections where the mind always points out inadequacies although she has all this patience right here that is just waiting to serve. With the help of our tools, the instant connection made her observe all the positive qualities she had. All the inadequacies only come from the mind, they’re not real.
You can see the inadequacies more because you haven’t discovered your own qualities.
These qualities have been covered up by programming and teaching us how to compare ourselves to others so that we have to buy products in order to be more like them. This is when we are off balance and you become manipulatable.
8 – Do NOT Try and Overcome Obstacles
Reduce the amount of importance you project onto the obstacles but don’t try to overcome them. So, the whole book stresses upon becoming aware and incorporates this in your regular practice. A lot of times the world is trying to get your attention in so many different directions. But take a moment to ask yourself “Am I perceiving from the moving scales that are trying to take my energy or from the fulcrum that sees it all?
These mind maps are a way to help you understand it intellectually but then apply it and take steps within your own life to be in balance. Because we can understand intellectually what balance is all about but when you experience this, this is when sectors begin to open up and the scripts being downloaded that you never dreamed possible. This is when Lifelines begin to shift in a path of where you want to go.
9 – Take Pleasure In Life
Vadim talks about taking pleasure in life in his Reality Transurfing book. It’s like taking these moments where we can be happy. And this also opens up creative energy and this creative energy as we let it flow can help us shift into more positive lifelines.
This is the formula that Vadim explains for being able to shift lifelines and to let this creative energy bring more of these serendipitous and synchronicity experiences.
Take Aways
One of the many techniques that Vadim explained in the book is just beginning to recognize when you’re in that state of displeasure. This is the point when you’re gonna trigger balancing forces. So, you have to find the pleasing part in every displeasing situation and that’s almost like an antidote for the balancing of forces that you just triggered.
That’s one way of stopping these triggers. Also, Vadim goes into explaining dependent relationships, idealization, over evaluation. These are things that you idolize, it’s not coming from love. It’s coming from an idea. If you’re idolizing it, you’re putting it on a pedestal, this will create your goals to be out of balance including over evaluation.
When your next step becomes very clear, you tend to be in balance.
But when you start over evaluating and your mind starts to rob your energy. So, you have to be aware of when these things are happening. Vadim also talks about contempt and vanity. For instance, if you have contempt for beggars and tramps, you too will one day lose all your money and your home as a way of restoring the balance. So if you have a judgment for somebody “oh! that’s like a low life and that’s beneath me.” Remember you are triggering the balancing forces to take action. So, you will be in the same position maybe not today, not tomorrow but after three years or five years. He talked about this a little bit like Karma but this is happening within your lifetime. This is the space of realities where you are in your level, in your world, and in your layer.
“Transurfing enables you to choose your destiny without compromising anyone else’s interests.”
This is key when finding balance with reality transurfing because a lot of times our pendulums could actually affect other people but if we’re choosing our destiny, we’re not compromising anybody else’s interest. This is ultimately much more effective than storming ahead, fighting the battle and overcoming all these obstacles along your way. It’s love versus force, its softness versus force. Trickling water will carve beautiful carvings in rocks with its flow over time. And it’s just as powerful if not, even more, when you just hold space for whatever is happening to happen. And there comes guilt and shame.
If you have guilt and shame within your own energy system, it might cause shorts within your energy system.
Because guilt is pure excess potential. That’s why I say it causes shorts within you and it’s actually a button where anybody with any pendulum is looking to manipulate someone they look for people with guilt and shame buttons.
The most important thing is to definitely take away what you are putting importance on which creates excess potential, which triggers balancing forces. So, when something is coming in to take your attention away, become extremely aware of it. This is the only way to experience life to its fullest.
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