In this beginners guide to spiritual awakening, you can accelerate your personal and spiritual growth. We are continuing on our spiritual awakening journey for eight things that are really important for beginners who’ve just started on their spiritual awakening journey.
So, in order to know about people’s experiences, we posted a poll and you won’t believe that their responses keep coming in. So to simplify the process, we categorized these responses into eight categories. The question we basically asked is “what is the most important thing to know when people are starting out on their spiritual journey?”
So, in this article, we’re going to be talking about number seven of our categories. This is about dictating the importance that there is nothing to fix. There is nothing about you that you need to fix or change or learn or do anything. And people amazingly provided some effective ways to get stuck to this idea.
Nothing to Fix About You: 7 Steps to Achieve the Goal in Spiritual Awakening Process
The thought that “nothing to fix about me” is not so easy to get along. You’ll face a range of issues regarding this. So let’s get started!
Don’t Subscribe to Every Teacher
People often make this mistake, especially when they’re starting out on their spiritual awakening journey. You should never believe all the ideas that you come across. You can take stock of how something feels in your heart, when you come across an article or a video or something like that. So you’re gonna be reading a lot of stuff and you’re looking for a lot of stuff. So as you’re reading it, check if it feels good and true to your heart.
If it doesn’t feel true then keep moving and keep looking. Don’t get stuck on any one thing. Don’t say – that’s wrong, that’s got to change, I don’t believe that, why are you spreading those lies – just let it go if it’s not for you.
Be in The Space of Balance
It’s important to come from a space of knowing nothing, being zero, being in this space of balance and being centered. So these will help you know that there’s nothing to fix you.
You should only know this feeling when you go inside, when you’re staying centered and grounded, when you’re finding your balance, when you understand there’s something bigger than you.
This is when you’re able to forgive and forget especially for yourself, when you’ve created a daily practice like a routine then you come to this understanding. You’ll feel that “it’s just me, Period”. After that nothing is needed such as I am Deni, I’m a wife, I’m a mother, I’m a friend, I’m a teacher, I’m all of these things. But all of those things are not the true me. And so when you come into this space you realize that it’s just you. Then you open up your wings and expand.
Surrender Yourself
When you’re in the space of nothing to fix in this category, then surrendering yourself is also important. This point came up in almost all of the categories in this spiritual awakening process. It’s because surrendering and letting go is like allowing this neat suit for this body.
It is a temple if you will be. It’s like “I don’t have to change this human being, let this human be who it is. I don’t have to do anything with it. Because when I shift into this expansive space, you know heart and mind and unity then there is nothing to fix.”
So it is all about love now and forever. So what do you need right now? Most of us don’t need anything. What you want right now is your desired reality and your current reality in harmony. These are areas that need to be fixed and adjusted but anything about you as a human being absolutely fixed already.
Everything Happens for a Reason
Someone said that everything that happens in your life whether it’s perceived as good or bad happens for a reason. And we hear this a lot. It happens for a reason, but sometimes the only reason you can see is bad.
But if we come from this space of nothing to fix then there’s something happening beyond my understanding. This is where I like to go but happening for a reason was one of those things I didn’t like to hear.
But everything is happening as if there’s nothing I can do about it or I can’t control it, then it’s wise to let go of wanting to control. Because when you want to control something it needs to be fixed. So, there are no coincidences, everything happens for good.
You can’t see the good especially when we’re dredging through a situation or our current situation. It’s really hard to see the good at these times but if there’s only so much you’re seeing that needs to be fixed then do this practice. You can just take 30 seconds and just see good things only. You can check in “where’s the good?” well, “good is that I’m still alive that’s good right? I’m still breathing, that’s good. I have clothes on my body that’s good.”
So you can start with these small observations in the first place. Because sometimes the mind takes you down these rabbit holes that says we gotta fix you. So, it’s really important to come into this space where there is nothing that needs to be fixed.
The Experience is Different For Everyone
The experience is different for everyone. It’s the same with all of these experiences that you’re experiencing on this spiritual awakening process. All of them are going to be unique to you. The grand secret is, it’s your observation to figure out what works for you.
It doesn’t have to work for anyone else or make sense to anyone else. So as you’re coming together and coming to this space where there’s nothing that needs to be fixed, you’re discovering the tools that work for you. Then you can say to others “oh my god you have an awesome experience that works for you ”.
You’re gonna tell everybody else about it.But i’m gonna highly recommend that you don’t do that. You should experience it for forty days first and keep it inside as a secret. If you’re experiencing this space where there’s nothing that needs to be fixed for 40 days, then allow it to expand then you can share it. But, only if others come to you and want to share then only share your experience.
Else if you tell other people about your experiences then there might be a clash of experiences as everyone’s experience is different. So, people may suggest you to do different things, then you get confused.
So for those who are information seekers and love to fall down those rabbit holes I’m gonna challenge you to hold off on that and keep this to yourself. As you keep this feeling that there is nothing to fix within you, everything is as it’s supposed to be, and trust everything’s opening and expanding. Hold this for yourself for 40 days.This is my challenge for you.
There are no Shortcuts
There’s no shortcuts to true enlightenment whatever that means for you. One thing that we keep telling is that everybody’s experience is different. So, you should just be in the present moment, be one with the flow and hear that flow comes up again.
Sometimes going through this spiritual awakening process feels very lonely. You can’t really talk to too many people about your experience because they might start casting doubt on you. Or receiving meds to cover up the symptoms.
So just stay with it for a while, find those who you trust and seriously going inside is the best thing to do. You can go inside and realize that there’s an expansive oneness within you.
Be Simple
It’s important to dump all your concepts about God and be simple. This spiritual path is the simplest and you can make it really simple. It’s the mind and what we expect that makes it complicated. It doesn’t need any mantras. Just ground yourself, belief in yourself, and trust in your senses.
So these are your gifts! Your true asset is that we not only have these external senses but also we have these internal senses. So, as we begin to listen to these senses and know that there’s absolutely nothing to fix about you then only we integrate and align and that’s something you have to do from the inside out.
It Starts With YOU!
So we’re going to be talking about how to control your thoughts in our next article. You’ll know what your conversations are when you’re talking to yourself. Would you speak to a child the way you speak to yourself inside? And we’re going to talk about the importance of controlling your thoughts too in the spiritual awakening journey.
Thank you for being on this journey with me. I hope you’ve discovered your true self in this journey. Keep continuing with the process of spiritual awakening and discover more about yourself. This is an experiential journey, not an intellectual one. So, keep experiencing rather than feeding your mind with intellectual thoughts.
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